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Pablo Rafael
04-17-2007, 10:13 PM
Sex and the Single Savior
By Dale B. Martin
copyright 2006

I just finished this book and thought it had some thought-provoking ideas. I don't agree with everything by any means; the author is much more liberal than I am in his views, but I found his arguments quite well-reasoned and sound. Has anyone else read this?

Just a few topics covered:

The Bible doesn't say anything. It has to be interpreted. No one can claim that they know the true interpreattion. There is no "right" interpretation. The Bible must speak to the community of believers. This lack of certainty might make people uncomfortable, but it is how the Bible must be read.

Concerning the terms "arsenokiotes" and "malakos" He states that interpreatations of "arsenokoites" and "malakos" as condemning homosexuality have been driven more by ideological interests in marginalizing gay and lesbian people than by a historical understanding of those terms.

About passion in Paul's letters. "Paul was apparently not a very romantic fellow. While most modern Christians consider marriage the proper sphere for the expresion of desire, Paul considered marriage a mechanism by which desire could be extinguished. In Paul's view sex was not so much the problem as desire. And sexual intercourse within marriage functioned to keep desire from happening."

Also discussed: Was Jesus married? Was he gay? (Not a sacreligious as the topic might sound.)

Abut the nuclear family : "Contemporary Christianity in the U.S. has so closely aligned the basic message of Christianity with the family and 'traditional family values' that it is currently in a state of idolatry... The religious term for for identifying anything but God at the center of the Christian faith is idolatry. And the idolatry of contemporary American Christianity is the familiar idolatry of the church's current focus on the family

He discusses how Paul steered away from traditional interpretation methods of the day using very liberal interpretation of the Old Testament to include people (gentiles) in the church where they had previously been marginalized.

About LGBT peple and the church: "We gay and lesbian Christians have repeatedly born wittness to our own inclusion in the family of God and our experience of the Spirit and the grace of God. Our experiences have confirmed, at least to our satisfaction and to the satisfaction of millions of other Christians, that we are full members of the body of Christ as gay and lesbian people. This is not to ignore or reject scriptrure. It is to follow the exapmles of Paul, Peter and James in interpreting Scripture by the leading of the Spirit from slavery to freedom."

What are the Biblical teaching on divorce and remarriage? Is it wrong?

He is of the "Postmodern" school of thougt. I generally have some trouble with this philosophy because so much of it seems to discard Scripture altogether. This book I found different.

Tu Amigo, Pablo

u-dog
04-18-2007, 11:29 AM
Another darn book to read !! Curse you Pablo!;)

dsdrane
04-18-2007, 11:50 AM
Sex and the Single Savior
By Dale B. Martin
copyright 2006

"Paul was apparently not a very romantic fellow.

That's an understatement.

Also discussed: Was Jesus married? Was he gay? (Not a sacreligious as the topic might sound.)

I'm definitely intrigued by the whole Jesus-as-gay thing. If he's definitely not gay, how exactly is he straight? Isn't he supposed to have experienced every human emotion (and yet never sinned)? Bi-sexual? Pan-sexual? Neither? None of the above?

And the Beloved Disciple?? :rolleyes:

Is it just me??

Forgive me if this has been tackled ad nauseum elsewhere, but I've been meaning to bring this up (and can certainly start a different thread, so as not to hijack this one).

Pablo Rafael
04-18-2007, 06:27 PM
I'm definitely intrigued by the whole Jesus-as-gay thing. If he's definitely not gay, how exactly is he straight? Isn't he supposed to have experienced every human emotion (and yet never sinned)? Bi-sexual? Pan-sexual? Neither? None of the above?

And the Beloved Disciple?? :rolleyes:

Is it just me??


The topic of Jesus and John, AKA "the disciple Jesus loved", is brought up briefly in the book. Although we can't tell for sure if Jesus was gay and/or if he had a romantic reationship with John, I like to think that it is a possibility. Jesus was a human being with human feelings and desires. I like to entertain the possibility of Jesus being gay; how cool would that be?

Also looking in the Bible we find that Jesus specifically (and God in general) has real tendency to do things that upset the established order. It would be just like God to do something contrary to human conventions like coming to earth as a gay man.

Tu Amigo, Pablo

dsdrane
04-19-2007, 10:40 AM
The topic of Jesus and John, AKA "the disciple Jesus loved", is brought up briefly in the book. Although we can't tell for sure if Jesus was gay and/or if he had a romantic reationship with John, I like to think that it is a possibility. Jesus was a human being with human feelings and desires. I like to entertain the possibility of Jesus being gay; how cool would that be?

Also looking in the Bible we find that Jesus specifically (and God in general) has real tendency to do things that upset the established order. It would be just like God to do something contrary to human conventions like coming to earth as a gay man.

Tu Amigo, Pablo

Honestly, I really don't think it's so far-fetched. A Gay Auntie of mine told me as a young gayling that The Gays were meant to be priests, because they could remain apart and above. You can't be part of the flock and lead the flock at the same time. Celibacy? Sure, we don't want to sleep with women anyway. Funky, frilly clothes? Woohoo!

You get where I'm going with this....

-d.

lydiam
05-22-2007, 03:46 PM
So I'm a month late on this discussion, but I just read this book I'm so glad I did. I found it to be really insightful. This was one of my favorite passages:

By this light (he's referring to St. Augustine), any interpretation of Scripture that hurts people, oppresses people, or destroys people cannot be the right interpretation, no matter how traditional, historical, or exegetically respectable. There can be no debate about the fact that the church's stand on homosexuality has caused oppression, loneliness, self-hatred, violence, sickness, and suicide for millions of people. If the church wishes to continue with its traditional interpretation it must DEMONSTRATE, not just claim, that it is more loving to condemn homosexuality than to affirm homosexuals. Can the church SHOW that same-sex loving relationships damage those involved in them? Can the church give compelling reasons to believe that it really would be better for all lesbian and gay Christians to live alone, without the joy of intimate touch, without hearing a lover's voice when they go to sleep or awake? Is it really better for lesbian and gay teenagers to despise themselves and endlessly pray that their very personalities be reconstructed so that they may experience romance like their straight friends? Is it really more loving for the church to continue its worship of "heterosexual fulfillment" (a "nonbiblical" concept, by the way) while consigning thousands of its members to a life of either celibacy or endless psychological manipulations that masquerade as "healing"?

sjbouza
05-22-2007, 05:12 PM
So I'm a month late on this discussion, but I just read this book I'm so glad I did. I found it to be really insightful. This was one of my favorite passages:

By this light (he's referring to St. Augustine), any interpretation of Scripture that hurts people, oppresses people, or destroys people cannot be the right interpretation, no matter how traditional, historical, or exegetically respectable. There can be no debate about the fact that the church's stand on homosexuality has caused oppression, loneliness, self-hatred, violence, sickness, and suicide for millions of people. If the church wishes to continue with its traditional interpretation it must DEMONSTRATE, not just claim, that it is more loving to condemn homosexuality than to affirm homosexuals. Can the church SHOW that same-sex loving relationships damage those involved in them? Can the church give compelling reasons to believe that it really would be better for all lesbian and gay Christians to live alone, without the joy of intimate touch, without hearing a lover's voice when they go to sleep or awake? Is it really better for lesbian and gay teenagers to despise themselves and endlessly pray that their very personalities be reconstructed so that they may experience romance like their straight friends? Is it really more loving for the church to continue its worship of "heterosexual fulfillment" (a "nonbiblical" concept, by the way) while consigning thousands of its members to a life of either celibacy or endless psychological manipulations that masquerade as "healing"?

WOW...I JUST MEAN IT...WOW:applause::applause::agree::agree:

That last paragraph was GREAT. It really made me think...I mean really made me think. You posed some very wonderful questions. I am planning to forward them to my aunt and my pastor, both of which have told me that I am sinning if I am in a same sex relationship and I cannot be a Christian. WOW!!!!!!

antonyh
05-22-2007, 08:24 PM
If the church wishes to continue with its traditional interpretation it must DEMONSTRATE, not just claim, that it is more loving to condemn homosexuality than to affirm homosexuals. Can the church SHOW that same-sex loving relationships damage those involved in them? Can the church give compelling reasons to believe that it really would be better for all lesbian and gay Christians to live alone, without the joy of intimate touch, without hearing a lover's voice when they go to sleep or awake? Is it really better for lesbian and gay teenagers to despise themselves and endlessly pray that their very personalities be reconstructed so that they may experience romance like their straight friends? Is it really more loving for the church to continue its worship of "heterosexual fulfillment" (a "nonbiblical" concept, by the way) while consigning thousands of its members to a life of either celibacy or endless psychological manipulations that masquerade as "healing"?

Thank you for saying this.