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andrewlittle
05-17-2007, 01:01 AM
I was going to PM this, but decided it needed to be said in public.
Daniel, you can counsel me anytime. You have shown grace, sound judgment and, above all else, the capacity to love someone enough to tell the truth in as gentle a way as can be done.
There is a tendency in young or truly needy people, or in certain other specific cases, to turn on those from whom they seek help, when the help does not end up looking like the ego-stroking and delusion-reinforcing they were looking for. So be it.
I just want to make sure, since you are kind of a sloppy, sensitive sort, that you don't take the recent opinions of one person to heart. I admire the way you handled your comments, and applaud the tremendous amount of love you showed.
BTW, Zerbie, you were no slouch, either.
Next time I'm all emotionally messed up, as happens from time to time, you folk will be among those to whom I come running. Just remember, though, when I ask for help - I WANT you to blow smoke up my ass and tell me its someone else's fault - okay? None of this loving honesty stuff for me - alright?
Zerbie
05-17-2007, 01:13 AM
I have tremendous faith in Daniel. He's held my hand a few times, and I've allowed him to guide me in some ways that are incredible for someone I've never even seen face to face. He truly has my trust. Daniel, if you ever have to tell me some shit I don't want to hear, you say it, and don't let me get away with striking out at you if I get pissed, k?
That said, "sloppy?!" Bwahhh!!! :lol: Gee Daniel, go clean up your room! :lol:
Vanessa White
05-17-2007, 09:53 AM
Daniel: I admire the balance that you seem to show here of sensitivity and peacefulness of spirit, yet directness and anger and frustration when the need arises. Your perspective to me is always refreshing and necessary. I agree with Zerbie and Andrew, that I look for those critiques if I am off base. I come here to learn, and have learned so much about myself and others in a short time. You have been influential in that, so I thank you. Remember to yourself in your quieter moments, that you are a gift to many of us here, loved and appreciated for who you are, and I am glad to have "met" you....... Love, peace and prayers, Vanessa :love::love::love::pray::pray::pray:
Daniel
05-17-2007, 12:59 PM
It was something of a shock to find this thread. There I was, snooping around on the 'who's doing what and where' page and noticed someone reading a "To Daniel" thread....who? My God....that's me! And then an odd feeling came over me after I read your posts.
Tears. You guys made me cry. That's all I can say. (sloppy indeed!)
I love you all.
This place is the definition of family. And I'm very glad to count myself among you.
Freespirited
05-17-2007, 01:23 PM
Allow me to put my two cents!
I have been reading Daniel's posts and comments since joining Soulforce, and I find them direct and to the point. I am very fond of people who speak their minds even if at times my sensitivies may be shaken or hurt. Not that it does any effect on me, since I have learned to never take personal opinions personally, unlike so many overly sensitive members and even moderators did at the GCN forum I participate in before I came here! But here most members and specially moderators are soooooooo much more flexible and mature. I love all you guys and gals!! Daniel is a perfect example of the kind of maturity, directness, and sensible character that most members in this forum share alike!!
Daniel rocks!!
LEANDRO
:love: Yup! He's all of the above and more! And I just got to meet this amazing mister (fortunate me!!!), so I can confirm his excellent quality of character and insight from an "in person" perspective. I would trust him with my soul.
:love::love::love::love::love:
dsdrane
05-17-2007, 02:03 PM
I would trust him with my hair!
:agree:
:love::cookie:
BrentRichards
05-17-2007, 02:32 PM
I would trust him with my hair!
:agree:
:love::cookie:
Wow, Daniel ... I'm sure you realize how big a deal that is! I'll add my kudos here as well. We're not backing away nervously to let you get struck by lightning alone!
Daniel
05-17-2007, 02:38 PM
I would trust him with my soul.
Dash- Seeing that we went to the heart of sin city itself...Times Square...you may be at risk. Though, come to think of it, it's been pretty Disneyfied since I moved here. There was a time when you could see...and get...anything you wanted. ;) Now? Marry Poppins is there! :rolleyes:
I would trust him with my hair!
David- Considering the pics you have here, you have pretty gorgeous hair. And what a hair line....I'm jealous.
keltic63
05-17-2007, 02:49 PM
Dash- Seeing that we went to the heart of sin city itself...Times Square...you may be at risk. Though, come to think of it, it's been pretty Disneyfied since I moved here. There was a time when you could see...and get...anything you wanted. ;) Now? Marry Poppins is there! :rolleyes:
David- Considering the pics you have here, you have pretty gorgeous hair. And what a hair line....I'm jealous.
Wow! That Dash is tall! I know how tall our Daniel is......
BrentRichards
05-17-2007, 02:52 PM
Wow! That Dash is tall! I know how tall our Daniel is......
"our Daniel" ... very British. Reminds me of "Keeping Up Appearances" ... "our Sherridan" "our Rose" "our Hyacinth" etc...
I would trust him with my hair!
:agree:
:love::cookie:
Why ya gotta one-up me ds'y D?? I trust Daniel like INFINITY more than you! So there! :p
NathanATX
05-17-2007, 03:01 PM
Daniel & Zerbie are two of my "wisdom gatherers"...
Daniel
05-17-2007, 03:29 PM
Daniel & Zerbie are two of my "wisdom gatherers"...
To Zerbie!
Batgirl is like no other.
Your kindness, my dear, is a shining light to everyone.
You are compassion incarnate.
And I humbly bow at your feet.
Namaste!
Zerbie
05-17-2007, 03:36 PM
Oh my god!
:'(
Vanessa White
05-18-2007, 11:25 AM
You totally ROCK!!! And, I agree with Daniel, it is family here, as family should be for all of us. Embracing, tender, firm, patient, understanding, and crazy at times. I am sooooooo jealous that Dash and Daniel got to meet in 3D- I hope to meet many of you in the future. The presence of love and soulful connection here is almost overwhelming at times......
CAN YOU FEEL THE LOVE, ALL?????? :love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::l ove::love::love:
Zerbie
05-18-2007, 01:25 PM
:D:D:D
:love::love::love:
I would like to register my agreement with the aforementioned positive sentiments affectionately expressed with respect to Her Most Magnificent Loveliness, Queen Zerbie the Benevolent and Gracious, sometime and here-ever-after Ruler and Potentate of High C's and other Notable Notes in all ethereal regions wherein dwelleth sopranos and other ladies of grand operatic relation.
[much bowing and scraping]
:love:
dsdrane
05-18-2007, 04:10 PM
I would like to register my agreement with the aforementioned positive sentiments affectionately expressed with respect to Her Most Magnificent Loveliness, Queen Zerbie the Benevolent and Gracious, sometime and here-ever-after Ruler and Potentate of High C's and other Notable Notes in all ethereal regions wherein dwelleth sopranos and other ladies of grand operatic relation.
[much bowing and scraping]
:love:
:eek:
Gaaaah.
dsdrane
05-18-2007, 04:14 PM
I trust Zerbie with my hair, too.
Dash, on the other hand, I now trust with my biography.
u-dog
05-18-2007, 07:49 PM
As the PRESIDENT of the Zerbie Fanclub! :smashy:
tdogg
05-19-2007, 10:10 PM
Daniel,
The voice of logic and reason, intertwined with compassion and passion. You are one of my most favorite persons that I have yet to meet. I'm so so glad you are on these forums!!! :love:
Zerbie,
Wise and loving, with a little bit of vulnerability that's not often easy to see. And let's not forget Z our activist, whose efforts yielded great reward in the state of AZ and for all of us. Looking forward to meeting this wonderful woman in 3D in the near future!!! :love:
Zerbie
05-19-2007, 10:57 PM
The next time I have one of those vulnerable moments I will open this thread and read it. Y'all have no idea what it feels like to see your words here. :'(:love:
:dove:
I love you all so much. :love:
Tdogg - I totally look forward to meeting you when you're in town this fall! We'll grab some eats and gab to our hearts' content. :D:aparty::rainbow::love::love:
Waita minute, how could I forget the cookie? :cookie: :p
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