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andrewlittle
10-22-2007, 09:39 AM
I am curious!

Okay - after you get done playing with that statement - I want to know something.

I read all manner of pseudoscience about what is psychologically or pthologically wrong with GLBT folk. I read all manner of research about why the pseudoscience sucks big ones.

But where are the studies about the root causes and (possible) links to early childhood trauma, abuse or other critical events that lead up to homophobia? I have no doubt whatsoever - which is why I couldn't participate - that homophobia, or even bias against LGBT, is a mental or emotional disorder. Where are the studies (if they exist) into the causes of this most diabolical dysfunction?

If there aren't any, shouldn't there be?

andrewlittle
10-22-2007, 09:53 AM
Yes! is there a measurable correlation between Homophobia and being molested by one's otherwise heterosexual little league coach? You gotta wonder where that level of hate and anger comes from!!

And the Larry Craigs of the world. Heterosexuals - homophobic heterosexuals, at that - who feel a compulsive need to dilly dally in high risk sexual encounters with the same sex. This guy, and others like him, are not gay - there is some kind of deeply rooted mental problem at work that gives them a prurient interest in things they otherwise find "disgusting". Then they spend their time saying, "I am not gay." No shit - you're not gay - you're sick as hell, but most certainly not gay.

Emproph
10-28-2007, 01:17 AM
But where are the studies about the root causes and (possible) links to early childhood trauma, abuse or other critical events that lead up to homophobia? I have no doubt whatsoever - which is why I couldn't participate - that homophobia, or even bias against LGBT, is a mental or emotional disorder. Where are the studies (if they exist) into the causes of this most diabolical dysfunction?Yes! is there a measurable correlation between Homophobia and being molested by one's otherwise heterosexual little league coach?You gotta wonder where that level of hate and anger comes from!!

I've been wondering about this lately too. There's a guy on Teach the facts.org that is responsible for the majority of the anti-gay remarks and other nonsense. The school system is implementing a new sex-ed curriculum which objectively acknowledges homosexuality as an orientation without condemning it - and the anti-gay groups are having the time of their lives spreading hate about it.

This is the latest, and a TYPICAL quote from the guy in question:

Adolescence is a confusing time for kids. Many go through stages. If they go to classes implying that homosexuality is innate, the danger is they may become solidified in this type of lifestyle.

He says stuff like that so much that it's beyond just parroting the anti-gay talking points. I've come to the conclusion that he must have been either molested himself, or actually was confused, and then was told he should accept being gay, and then it turned out that he wasn't. So now he blames this on all gays.

Come to think of it, I actually Googled to try and find studies for a correlation between how victims of abuse grow up to think of the demographic of their abuser, be it race, religion, orientation or whatever, Not much luck though. There's got to be studies like that though.

Progo35
10-28-2007, 08:57 AM
I think that true homophobia relates to the human tendency to recoil at anything foriegn that appears to threaten the threshhold of appropriateness developed from their experiences, which has been written about by Freud and others.


Interesting thoughts...

Dumbledore
10-28-2007, 09:18 AM
I am curious!

Okay - after you get done playing with that statement - I want to know something.

I read all manner of pseudoscience about what is psychologically or pthologically wrong with GLBT folk. I read all manner of research about why the pseudoscience sucks big ones.

But where are the studies about the root causes and (possible) links to early childhood trauma, abuse or other critical events that lead up to homophobia? I have no doubt whatsoever - which is why I couldn't participate - that homophobia, or even bias against LGBT, is a mental or emotional disorder. Where are the studies (if they exist) into the causes of this most diabolical dysfunction?

If there aren't any, shouldn't there be?

Homosexuality was removed from the DSM-III-R as a pathology. I've been contemplating what you said...to perhaps add the litany of irrational prejudices to the DSM-III-R as pathological conditions.

I can almost hear James Dobson squealing under the knife. "They're assaulting our Christian liberty to hate the gays. It's in the Bible. It is God's holy will..." Blah blah blah.

But you're right...long term studies need to conducted on the root causes of homophobia. I'd like to suggest some test subjects: James Dobson, Fred Phelps, ... can't think of any others ... they all died or got outed.

Alecto
10-28-2007, 03:28 PM
Does the preocupation with homosexuality fall under another already-existing diagnosis, perhaps? It sometimes seems a bit obsessive (literally, medically speaking) to me (see the Phelps clan). And sometimes the ranting could probably fall under paranoid schizophrenia (again...Phelps clan :-/). That said, I would be really interested to see some connections made, or even just read some case studies etc.

Emproph
11-01-2007, 02:10 AM
Didn't someone quote a study not long ago where they measured the physiological responses of men to various kinds of porn and then measured their degree of homophobia with a questionaire and found that the worst homophobes had a higher degree of response to gay porn? I have this vague foggy memory... :confused:

http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/articles/glb/glbtphobia.html 3/18/99
Researchers at the University of Georgia conducted an experiment involving 35 homophobic men and 29 non-homophobic men as measured by the Index of Homophobia scale. All the participants selected for the study described themselves as exclusively heterosexual both in terms of sexual arousal and experience.

Each participant was exposed to sexually explicit erotic stimuli consisting of heterosexual, male homosexual and lesbian videotapes (but not necessarily in that order). Their degree of sexual arousal was measured by penile plethysmography, which precisely measures and records male tumescence.

Men in both groups were aroused by about the same degree by the video depicting heterosexual sexual behavior and by the video showing two women engaged in sexual behavior. The only significant difference in degree of arousal between the two groups occurred when they viewed the video depicting male homosexual sex: "The homophobic men showed a significant increase in penile circumference to the male homosexual video, but the control [non-homophobic] men did not."

Not that that's conclusive, but even if it were, I still want to know why the non-homosexual homophobes are so passionately anti-gay.

inca nitta
11-06-2007, 11:25 PM
I know about so many different phobias too many to count, like arachnophobia (fear of spiders), claustrophobia (fear of tall buildings), even Judophobia (fear of Jews and Judaism, believing like Jews will take over the world and will start using Gentile boys for their rituals). Surely, that was the mental disorder Hitler and his cronies were suffering from. So, no wonder that homophobia, a fear and hatred of homosexuality and homosexuals, is also a mental disorder.

Thus, knowing that homophobia is an example of all other phobias there are to it, i was wondering that there could be also heterophobia and Christianophobia? Fear and hatred of heterosexuality, like assuming that heterosexuals have an agenda to make everybody straight, and Christianophobia, a fear and hatred of Christianity and Christian people. For example, assuming that Christians want to take over the world, replace constitutions with the Bible, exterminate non-Christians, etc? Could it be possible, that the reason people suffering from this mental disorder has to do with having negative experience with a Christian religion?

Alecto
11-06-2007, 11:33 PM
An important part of making something a "phobia" is that it is an irrational fear (and or hatred depending on specifics and definitions). There do exist groups of fundamentalist christians who are very literally and very openly pushing to take over the country (ok, so, not quite the world) and effectively replace the constitution with the bible.
And I don't think I need to tell you about the groups of heterosexuals that are trying to make everyone straight: those are even easier to find. Yes, there's a difference between recognizing that these people exist, and assuming that all memebers of the whatever affinity group are acting the same way, but I don't think it's irrational to, when interacting with someone at first, deliberately neglect to assume anything about them. Meaning that, on a personal level, I'd really love to be able to assume that christians are good people, and that heterosexuals know how to respect gay people, but I can't make those assumptions anymore.

ladyinred
11-07-2007, 01:19 AM
Inca nitta......There are Christians trying to take over the world for Christ they are called domionists and it is well documented, also conversion therapy being pushed on homosexuals to change,well documented, The RR trying to enact legislation that would undermine the rights of LGBT ,well documented, numerous religious right groups are vehemently anti gay , well documented. Pat Robertson, Tony Perkins, Narth, Paul Cameron,Dobson, AFA,FRC,Traditional values Coalition ,ALCJ,Exodus international ,even the Coors foundation is involved(Funding wise),among others So I don't think it is a figment of our imagination.
As you can see there are many people here who consider themselves Christians, while there may be a gay activists who are extremist and hate Christianity,it seems to me you are trying to say gays are overreacting to all this and that they can't be Christians.RE:Your statements:"thus, knowing that homophobia is an example of all other phobias there are to it, i was wondering that there could be also heterophobia and Christianophobia? Fear and hatred of heterosexuality, like assuming that heterosexuals have an agenda to make everybody straight, and Christianophobia, a fear and hatred of Christianity and Christian people?"

It is also well documented that people like Pat Robertson among others do not support separation of church and state, want biblical law enforced above the constitution, so excuse me? And it is not by anyone's imagination that Paul Cameron made a statement about the possibility of exterminating gays.Gays have been blamed for familial break ups, divorces, 9/11, the recent California fires(Among many other things by the RR. So let me ask you who is being delusional here? Are you trying to label gay people in general as mentally ill then? .

]I may be wrong but are you making accusations here about gay people in general and trying to hijack this thread? Then I would ask the moderators to remove you from this forum because you are making inflamatory statements about GLBT people and calling them mentally ill for "imagining these things."
Moderators? RE: Statements made by Inca Nitta:"thus, knowing that homophobia is an example of all other phobias there are to it, i was wondering that there could be also heterophobia and Christianophobia? Fear and hatred of heterosexuality, like assuming that heterosexuals have an agenda to make everybody straight, and Christianophobia, a fear and hatred of Christianity and Christian people? Could it be possible, that the reason people suffering from this mental disorder has to do with having negative experience with a Christian religion? " Are you assuming that GLBT people can't be Christian and hate Christians and that only heterosexuals are capable of being true Christians?,If I made the wrong assumption, please explain yourself then.

andrewlittle
11-07-2007, 07:17 AM
I know about so many different phobias too many to count, like arachnophobia (fear of spiders), claustrophobia (fear of enclosed places), even Judophobia (fear of Jews and Judaism, believing like Jews will take over the world and will start using Gentile boys for their rituals- interesting - where the hell did this come from). Surely, that was the mental disorder Hitler and his cronies were suffering from. So, no wonder that homophobia, a fear and hatred of homosexuality and homosexuals, is also a mental disorder.

Thus, knowing that homophobia is an example of all other phobias there are to it, i was wondering that there could be also heterophobia and Christianophobia? Fear and hatred of heterosexuality, like assuming that heterosexuals have an agenda to make everybody straight, and Christianophobia, a fear and hatred of Christianity and Christian people. For example, assuming that Christians want to take over the world, replace constitutions with the Bible, exterminate non-Christians, etc? Could it be possible, that the reason people suffering from this mental disorder has to do with having negative experience with a Christian religion?

The key, as has been stated, is the IRRATIONAL fear.

Irrational fear of GLBT = thinking that being gay is contagious; thinking that gays are out to molest and convert our youngsters (irrational because the overwhelming majority of child predators are heterosexual and indisciminate as far as the gender of the victim is concerned); thinking that recognizing same-sex marriage would undermine or destroy heterosexual marriage (irrational since heterosexuals are doing a perfectly fine job of that themselves with a 50% divorce rate and 75% rate if infidelity); and oh so many more. Hence, homophobia.

The fear of Christian movements to turn GLBT straight - let's see - Exodus, Love Won Out and many other religious based reparative therapy movements; NARTH and their "gender-affirmative" therapies; the barrage of misinformation from Focus On The Family, Family Research Council and American Family Association. Irrational - I think not. Fears that certain Christian groups with enormous influence socially and politically want to make this a "Christian" nation, read the constitution through the lens of a mistranslated Bible, pass laws legislating adherence to Christian dogma - irrational, my ass.

Muddying a legitimate question with this kind of bullshit - cheap.
Obfuscating valid arguments by redirecting conversation to ridiculous extremes - even cheaper.
Trying to legitimize homophobia by casting rational fears as irrational - f--king pricelessly arrogant or ignorant.

I vote for inviting Inca Nitta into the privacy of the foyer - for a limited time till we see just how vitreolic and absurd his arguments get.

inca nitta
11-07-2007, 08:48 AM
Inca nitta......There are Christians trying to take over the world for Christ they are called domionists and it is well documented, also conversion therapy being pushed on homosexuals to change,well documented, The RR trying to enact legislation that would undermine the rights of LGBT ,well documented, numerous religious right groups are vehemently anti gay , well documented. Pat Robertson, Tony Perkins, Narth, Paul Cameron,Dobson, AFA,FRC,Traditional values Coalition ,ALCJ,Exodus international ,even the Coors foundation is involved(Funding wise),among others So I don't think it is a figment of our imagination.
As you can see there are many people here who consider themselves Christians, while there may be a gay activists who are extremist and hate Christianity,it seems to me you are trying to say gays are overreacting to all this and that they can't be Christians.RE:Your statements:"thus, knowing that homophobia is an example of all other phobias there are to it, i was wondering that there could be also heterophobia and Christianophobia? Fear and hatred of heterosexuality, like assuming that heterosexuals have an agenda to make everybody straight, and Christianophobia, a fear and hatred of Christianity and Christian people?"

It is also well documented that people like Pat Robertson among others do not support separation of church and state, want biblical law enforced above the constitution, so excuse me? And it is not by anyone's imagination that Paul Cameron made a statement about the possibility of exterminating gays.Gays have been blamed for familial break ups, divorces, 9/11, the recent California fires(Among many other things by the RR. So let me ask you who is being delusional here? Are you trying to label gay people in general as mentally ill then? .

]I may be wrong but are you making accusations here about gay people in general and trying to hijack this thread? Then I would ask the moderators to remove you from this forum because you are making inflamatory statements about GLBT people and calling them mentally ill for "imagining these things."
Moderators? RE: Statements made by Inca Nitta:"thus, knowing that homophobia is an example of all other phobias there are to it, i was wondering that there could be also heterophobia and Christianophobia? Fear and hatred of heterosexuality, like assuming that heterosexuals have an agenda to make everybody straight, and Christianophobia, a fear and hatred of Christianity and Christian people? Could it be possible, that the reason people suffering from this mental disorder has to do with having negative experience with a Christian religion? " Are you assuming that GLBT people can't be Christian and hate Christians and that only heterosexuals are capable of being true Christians?,If I made the wrong assumption, please explain yourself then.

I have not said anything about GLBT people, but I simply wanted to focus on the subject of phobia. As far as I can see, there could be various phobias. I was not saying things you are accusing me of. While I can understand that some Christians want to create a theocracy, definitely not all. So, if anybody is assuming that all Christians are like that, that person is being irrational.

As far as gay christians, I know there are many gay affirming churches in our country, and I fully support their right to practice what they believe. You know, we got freedom of religion, here.

If you want to focus specifically on the subject of homophobia and nothing else, then I guess, I won't be making asking any further questions in this thread.

I have to go to work, now, running late.

But I will get back to you later.

See ya,

Inca

NathanATX
11-07-2007, 09:43 AM
We're watching.

the mods

ladyinred
11-07-2007, 12:07 PM
Inca, nobody is saying all Christians are like that. Only a certain portion of the population believe as the right does, but their influence is powerful and they are trying to shape legislation to mold their ideology.and are trying to impose that on other Christians as well.When Pat Robertson said :‘You’re supposed to be nice to Episcopalians, Presbyterians and Methodists … Nonsense. I don’t have to be nice to the spirit of the Antichrist.’' How does he view other Christians then? I'm not providing references here google Pat Robertson and this quote and you'll find it ,it was even published in Japan today.

Alecto
11-07-2007, 12:45 PM
I, for one, am a little confused about why you're surprised that a forum site focusing on GLBT rights just might want to focus on homophobia.
Furthermore, it's insulting (whether or not you realize it) to come in and say "oh, you don't have it that bad. people do all the same things to Christians, and to heterosexuals!". No. They don't. And certainly not in the same numbers. When was the last time someone was beaten within inches of their lives for being Christian in America? When was the last time you had to ask yourself "Am I safe" just going out to eat? (http://www.365gay.com/Newscon07/11/110507jersey.htm). Whether you realize it or not, it is offensive to come here and minimize our oppression by equating it to some imagined plight of the majority.

inca nitta
11-07-2007, 01:31 PM
I, for one, am a little confused about why you're surprised that a forum site focusing on GLBT rights just might want to focus on homophobia.
Furthermore, it's insulting (whether or not you realize it) to come in and say "oh, you don't have it that bad. people do all the same things to Christians, and to heterosexuals!". No. They don't. And certainly not in the same numbers. When was the last time someone was beaten within inches of their lives for being Christian in America? When was the last time you had to ask yourself "Am I safe" just going out to eat? (http://www.365gay.com/Newscon07/11/110507jersey.htm). Whether you realize it or not, it is offensive to come here and minimize our oppression by equating it to some imagined plight of the majority.

Mary Stachowicz

inca nitta
11-07-2007, 01:35 PM
...and I don't like what Pat Robertson does anymore than you do.

inca nitta
11-07-2007, 01:39 PM
Also,

I thought that in this thread we could talk about all kinds of phobias and prejudices, including homophobia. I didn't realize that homophobia being a mental disorder was exclusive.

Sorry for misunderstanding.

ladyinred
11-07-2007, 02:20 PM
Inca,
i don't even think that Heterosexuality is an issue with gay people for most part. GLBT people after all came from heterosexual parents, nor are most against traditional marriage or families, ,nor are they trying to undermine traditional male/ female families. But what they are saying is because of the antigay agenda of certain religious organizations, they are being ostracized and dehumanized for their orientation. Being bullied from pulpits and browbeaten with the bible. You are an abomination of God, you are going to hell, you are wicked and evil and wretched and deserve the treatment you get. Now if someone talked to you in this way, how would you react? Ever have premarital sex? Divorced? Have you read scriptures on these by the way?
Now here is a definition of heterophobia I found:. Heterophobia

Stemming from a fear of emotional and/or physical safety, Heterophobia is the sometimes irrational fear of straight people by some gay people brought about by many years of oppression, verbal and physical abuse from the majority onto the minority.

"Jon's heterophobia manifested itself as fear for his physical safety when he would go to places he knew to be predominantly full of straight people he wouldn't know."

Now suppose someone broke into your home and put a gun to your head? Would you not then fear for your safety. Would you not feel violated? Of course the definition above seems to link the " phobia" with traumatic events of the past.(And perhaps ongoing ones in the present as with many gay.lesbian, transgender,bi youths, but this by no means limited to youth.)
Verbal, physical abuse and oppression on an ongoing basis could be called phobia?Note other people often respond the same way to traumatic events. Child abuse victims, rape victims, spousal abuse victims, even victims of genocide in other countries....... As far as "irrational fear" I don't even know if that is even a proper definition. Fear yes, but is that uncommon when people have been traumatized by certain events ?
But another thing to look at is,that there may be gays who have experienced rejection in their own experience of the church and it may be the very reason why there are those who reject Christianity and the church altogether.

ladyinred
11-07-2007, 03:43 PM
Now is there legitimate concern on the part of the LGBT community as far as violence being directed at them, is this imagined or irrational? Or are they just being paranoid and reacting to islolated events? Let's take a look...http://www.coavp.org/content/view/35/2/

http://www.aglbical.org/2RESEARCH.htm, other statistics:http://209.85.165.104/search?q=cache:74aW7bVx-5UJ:www.tacac.org/resources/glbtpg2.doc+The+violence+toward+GLBT+people,+stati stics&hl=en&ct=clnk&cd=6&gl=us,

http://www.amnestyusa.org/document.php?lang=e&id=ENGUS20050922002,
statistics on hate crimes I wish I had more accurate data about the statistics on hate crimes, but that was several years back. however here is an article:http://www.csmonitor.com/2005/0603/p03s01-ussc.html

Hey guys here's an idea, (From the article in CS monitor.)......"And when a virulent gay-basher came to speak in San Francisco, those protesting his hateful rhetoric organized an AIDS charity fundraiser in which people pledged to donate so much for every minute he spoke. When the speaker found out he was inadvertently supporting those he opposed, he left."




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Emproph
11-09-2007, 07:01 AM
Ok, this is where I eventually want to go with this...
Also,

I thought that in this thread we could talk about all kinds of phobias and prejudices, including homophobia. I didn't realize that homophobia being a mental disorder was exclusive.

Sorry for misunderstanding.

But there's some thing I've got to get out of the way first (I've been dying to do Mary Stachowicz), you'll have to forgive me.

I regret nothing.........


When was the last time someone was beaten within inches of their lives for being Christian in America? When was the last time you had to ask yourself "Am I safe" just going out to eat?
Mary Stachowicz

Mary Stachowicz.

Mary Stachowicz = Mary Stachowicz VS. Matthew Shepard.

Sought out, raped and killed, simply because she was Christian? Is this what you contend? An example of Christianophobia?

And while we’re at it, let’s not forget little Jesse Dirkhising. Are you also contending that he was sought out, raped and killed, simply because he was 13? Thirteenophobia?

~In Addition~

The question was, “When was the last time someone was beaten within inches of their lives for being Christian in America?” Your answer was Mary Stachowicz.

According to that criteria, 1 person, Five years ago, almost to the day, November 13, 2002, was “the last time” that a hate crime (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mary_Stachowicz) was committed against a Christian in America -- Simply because they were a Christian.

P.S. Does this mean you support hate crimes legislation?

inca nitta
11-09-2007, 07:07 PM
Hi folks,

I think this thread is about homophobia coming from psychological perspective, or about any other phobias also known from the fields of mental health.

I only mentioned Mary Stachowicz once, as to answer Alecto (Tim's) question. I also think that we should talk about hate crimes in a different thread.

I believe that any hate crimes are triggered by phobia, which is an irrational fear. Whether or not it is committed against GLBT, Christians, Blacks, women, I find that such attackers fear those people they attack, just because these people are different. Wouldn't anybody agree?

Maybe this is why people also refuse to communicate with somebody who is different? Out of phobia.

Christians are definitely a majority in the US, but are the minority in the world. I didn't claim that Christians are a persecuted minority, but I do claim that there are some people who are not Christians who fear Christians. Just like there are people who fear GLBT people, for no valid reason, other than those are different.

ladyinred
11-10-2007, 08:48 PM
There is only one problem I have with your line of reason, Inca, you post Christians as opposed to GLBT . Many here consider themselves Christian, it seems to me that you separate Christianity from LGBT people as in they can't possibly be Christians.

inca nitta
11-10-2007, 10:45 PM
There is only one problem I have with your line of reason, Inca, you post Christians as opposed to GLBT . Many here consider themselves Christian, it seems to me that you separate Christianity from LGBT people as in they can't possibly be Christians.

With all due respect, Layinred, this is not what I was reasoning. Like I said before, there are LGBT Christians, but definitely not all LGBT people are Christians, just like not all straight people are Christians. Stemming from this argument, I was reasoning that people who are not Christians could have a phobia about Christians, simply because they don't really know them, and this is not something they identify themselves with. Likewise, hetero people (both Christians and non-Christians) could have a phobia about GLBT people, simply because they don't really know them and this is not something they identify themselves with. Am I making any sense?

Also, I am not so sure, how does what you just said is related to the subject of this thread? If you have any personal concerns, please send me a PM. I think it would be better to settle any possible misunderstandings in private, rather than bring it up to the public.

Thank you very much,

Inca Nitta

ladyinred
11-23-2007, 03:49 PM
Yes you make sense.

ladyinred
11-23-2007, 03:51 PM
I'm sure that there are also those who have felt rejected or ostracized by the church who have shunned Christianity altogther and may have hard feelings about it. I don't know about phobia, but perhaps mistrust of Christians and their intentions.People who have had generally positive experiences with a church probably wouldn't feel this way.Gay affirming churches for example. Sorry if I jumped to conclusions about your statements, but I guess that was a misunderstanding on my part. But since you have clarified what you are trying to say. I can "get" your point now. But there are GLBT people who identify as being agnostic, atheist and perhaps another religion because they may be turned off to Christianity for whatever reason or it just isn't their cup of tea.


I'd also say that LGBT people who have had traumatic experiences with the church in terms of being told they are sinners, going to hell and brow beaten with the bible, may turn from Christianity based on the negative messages they receive from a church .Of course this is just my perspective.

It may be true that many are homophobic based on their religious training or upbringing and don't know any other way to respond and have been bombarded with so many negative messages about LGBT people , religious and otherwise, that they are very fearful as a result and see us as a threat and may believe that gay people are really all those awful things they have heard about. If you hear it often enough , the ol' saying goes , you tend to believe it. And that creates a big obstacle not only for LGBT people but heterosexuals to overcome as well.

Again I do apologize for jumping all over you. As you have responded graciously to my posts, I do feel I owe you that apology for jumping to conclusions .

inca nitta
11-23-2007, 07:50 PM
It's all right, Lady (I hope you don't mind calling you me that:) and I'm a Gentleman, btw;).

We already cleared it up in PMs. It was very nice.

Like wise, I also find what you said to make a lot of sense. To me, at least.

I observed that this forum has people with very open feelings and there is a lot of emotional emphasis, so I can understand why you responded the way you did.

Your friend,

Inca.

ladyinred
11-23-2007, 07:52 PM
Whoops, sorry about the name. I guess I just assumed you were a woman.(Thinking your last name in terms of Nita I guess) Perhaps you could explain your name or it's orgins, it is unusual. But again oops I jumped to conclusions again.(Of course I used to be called Andy by some of my friends in the past)

inca nitta
11-23-2007, 10:11 PM
Whoops, sorry about the name. I guess I just assumed you were a woman.(Thinking your last name in terms of Nita I guess) Perhaps you could explain your name or it's orgins, it is unusual. But again oops I jumped to conclusions again.(Of course I used to be called Andy by some of my friends in the past)

I didn't bother me, at all. Truthfully, it takes a long time for me to get offended. I definitely do not get offended at people who disagree with me. There are many reasons why they think what they think. It definitely helps to see people better once you realize what motivates them to believe, feel, and think such a way. For example, the information you provided helped me understand better why some LGBT people might feel scornful and resentful of Christianity.

As far as my screenname, it is my pseudonym, not my real name. I made it up myself, out of the blue, and this is how I preferred to be called, which I hope you wouldn't mind:)

Inca

Emproph
12-21-2007, 10:36 AM
That's the explanation I was looking for, transference, the defense mechanism!

For context, from opening post:
But where are the studies about the root causes and (possible) links to early childhood trauma, abuse or other critical events that lead up to homophobia? I have no doubt whatsoever - which is why I couldn't participate - that homophobia, or even bias against LGBT, is a mental or emotional disorder. Where are the studies (if they exist) into the causes of this most diabolical dysfunction?

If there aren't any, shouldn't there be?

Definition of Transference, the defense mechanism:
Transference (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transference) is a phenomenon in psychology characterized by unconscious redirection of feelings for one person to another. One definition of transference is "the inappropriate repetition in the present of a relationship that was important in a person's childhood."[1] (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transference#_note-0) Another definition is "the redirection of feelings and desires and especially of those unconsciously retained from childhood toward a new object."[2] (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transference#_note-1)

More context:
Does the preocupation with homosexuality fall under another already-existing diagnosis, perhaps? It sometimes seems a bit obsessive (literally, medically speaking) to me (see the Phelps clan). And sometimes the ranting could probably fall under paranoid schizophrenia (again...Phelps clan :-/). That said, I would be really interested to see some connections made, or even just read some case studies etc.

So, to what extent are the experts of hatred just experts of transference?

They would certainly be the most passionate of the lot.

Those with an extremely personal negative experience with any given demographic or characteristic, such as someone who was gay, would be the most likely to “transfer” their hatred for that extremely negative experience, and the person who caused it, onto the entire demographic.

Take molestation especially. How else to express enough righful hatred for what happened than a lifetime of exacting revenge in every way possible?

In addition, the trauma of such abuse would cloud their ability to recognize their current behavior as being in response to the past. Nor would they want to recognize it, they would have decided that a lifetime of revenge is what’s needed.

Who would be more anti-gay motivated than someone who’s an expert at transference, who’s also been personally affected, severely negatively, by a gay person?

A straight guy might turn into a Peter LaBarbera or a Don Wildmon (or a Phelps).

That’s easy enough to understand, but the gay guy who was abused, transfers not just his molestation onto the GLBT community, but also the very REASON for his gayness.

Enter Ex-Gay Ministries’ claim that all gays have been abused. That might help to explain why so many ex-gays are so decidedly anti-gay.

Not just transference in those cases necessarily, but also the manipulation of it.

P.S. To complicate things further regarding the matter, now that I think about it, I tend to do my own share of transferring. It seems to me, however, that transference is basically a specified form of psychological projection (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection), a defense mechanism I am also quite personally familiar with...

Megandy
12-27-2007, 12:55 PM
I have done my best to read all the responses to the original thread. Although there was a tangent, I think I have come to understand the original purpose of this thread... which is to discuss the idea of homophobia as a mental disorder, in the same way that some claim that homosexuality is a mental disorder.

First, let me say that I personally have experienced the negative effects of homophobia, both towards me by others and by internalized homophobia. So I agree that it is a problem that needs to be addressed!

With that said, I must also caution those who are reading this to differentiate between GOOD research and SLOPPY research. Take this word of caution with a grain of salt, because its coming from a social work graduate student, and I am enmeshed in research classes at the moment. HOWEVER, I do know that we in the GLBT community have a responsibility to use discretion when quoting research. The anti-gay movement has so many things they hold against us, I'd hate for them to also claim that we use "sloppy" research to back up our points (which is ironic, because I'd claim that THEY use sloppy research for their points). So, let me very briefly share some key components of "good research" with you all, before going on to my 2 cents about homophobia as a mental disorder.

1. The research that we quote should be posted in scholarly journals, not pop magazines. If a pop magazine quotes a scholarly journal, there is likely to be some bias from the person quoting it. Research studies, unfortunately, can be interpreted many ways, and the best way to interpret it is through the research author's eyes. However, I know that most of us don't have access to scholarly journals, so its difficult to find any of that kind of research. If you truly want answers to your questions, however, go to your local library or local university library (or community college library), and ask the reference desk worker to help you search scholarly journals for the topic you are researching.

2. Often, research studies can be biased because of the lack of some key components to research. Now this is where things can get a little wordy, but stick with me, and hopefully you can learn something new about research!! First, when you are reading about a research study, you should note how they got the participants in the first place. This is referred to as the "sample"... you are sampling a portion of the greater population. Now, the sample should accurately be representative of its population. If it is not, then the results of the research will be skewed. Take this example for instance: if someone is studying the correlation between childhood abuse and GLBT lifestyle, and their sample is only from a mental health center, then what is the likelihood that their population is going to have experienced some sort of trauma? I'd say that the likelihood is extremely high, and I would also say that it is not representative of the general population of GLBT people. This error in sampling occurred in the earlier research (1950's-60's) that was conducted to understand where homosexuality came from, and this is the research that people like James Dobson are quoting (its sad that they can't keep up to date on research, but rather they rely on outdated research that has been proved to be bad research, and they deny the fact that it is bad research). This is why so many of the early studies claimed that childhood trauma caused homosexuality. But the problem came when better research was attempted and wanted to get a more representative sample of the population. At the time (1960's-70's), gays were more often than not living closeted lives. So how does one get a representative sample from a hidden or silenced population? Therein lies the problem when trying to research GLBT issues. Even though today there is a much greater degree of visibility with GLBT people, many people still live in the closet due to fear, hate crimes, or other issues. So, although the amount of GOOD research being conducted about GLBT issues is increasing, it is still a difficult task to complete due to the social dangers to this population.

3. In addition to the sample needing to be represenative, there needs to be an understanding of what the research study has set out to complete. There are several styles of research studies, and only very few have the capability to PROVE something. And even in the midst of that "proof", all science is under continual scrutiny (thats the nature of science!). So, a research study that is trying to find out the CORRELATION between two things cannot PROVE anything. It can shed light on the likelihood of two things occurring together in nature, but it does not have provability. The only type of research that can "prove" anything is experimental research. This is research that has controlled variables, is often set in a controlled environment (a lab or an office, although it can be set elsewhere), takes a high degree of statistical analysis, and takes a lot of other measures of research that I will not go into detail here to avoid boring you all to death (I like you, I don't want to kill you with research definitions!! :D ) So, although correlation studies do tell us a lot about the variables being studied, they cannot be relied on for proof of anything.

Okay, that's about all the rambling I will do on "good" research today. Class dismissed :lol:

If you all want to know more about components of "good" research, let me know and I'd be happy to share more in detail.

So anyway, on to the real topic: homophobia as a mental disorder. Homophobia is usually defined as: the irrational fear of being gay or coming into contact with people who are gay. Although many people do not fit into this category any more, most of America falls into the social prejudice of HETEROSEXISM, or heteronormativity. This is usually defined as: the inclination that heterosexuality is the only accepted form of sexuality, and gives preference to those who are heterosexual. This is a much broader term than homophobia, and I would say it encompasses more of the social problem than just homophobia. Although there are many people who still have irrational fears about being gay or coming into contact with gays, most people are heterosexist because they give preference to heterosexuals (by denying gay rights), they claim that heterosexuality is the best form of sexual expression (by claiming that homosexuality is a mental disorder), and they come down on all other expressions of sexuality (by saying it is immoral to be anything but heterosexual).

In a recent study (from a scholarly journal!) of social workers, it was found that although only 10% of them were "homophobic", almost 90% of them were heterosexist!! Meaning, most of the social workers in this sample thought that heterosexism was the best expression of sexuality, and should be given preference over all other expressions. And it is my opinion that the findings of that study are most likely representative of the general American public, whether Christian or not! Another finding from the study quoted above is that the correlation between homophobia and religiosity was very high. That would explain why the most religious people are often the most homophobic. I am glad that there was a low degree of homophobia found in this study, however, again it is my personal opinion that the true problem is heterosexism. Yes, homophobia can lead to hate crimes, but heterosexism keeps gays from the legal protection they need!

So here's my "argument" (if you can call it that)... homophobia, while it may meet the diagnostic conditions as a mental disorder, is more than just a mental disorder. It is a social problem, along with the greater social problem of heterosexism. And to best address the issue of homophobia and heterosexism, we need to approach is as a social problem. Martin Luther King Jr. did not fuel the civil rights movement by labeling racism as a mental disorder. He labeled it as a social problem, and that is more powerful than any other label we can put on our current issues. Keep that statement in mind with the fact that I myself am a mental health professional, so I don't have any problem with mental disorder labels... its what organizes and drives my profession. I just don't think it's the best way to address this problem.

andrewlittle
12-27-2007, 01:43 PM
Christians are definitely a majority in the US, but are the minority in the world.

Small point, and not to split hairs, but Christians of all ilks combined make up the largest religious group in the world by most estimates.

http://www.adherents.com/Religions_By_Adherents.html

ladyinred
12-28-2007, 05:01 PM
I don't know if this has any bearing, but are those that are the most homophobic frightened about suppressed homosexual tendacies?

andrewlittle
12-28-2007, 05:08 PM
I don't know if this has any bearing, but are those that are the most homophobic frightened about suppressed homosexual tendacies?

While it is only based on limited anecdotal evidence, my opinion is, "Yes, indeed!"

Megandy
12-28-2007, 06:27 PM
While it is only based on limited anecdotal evidence, my opinion is, "Yes, indeed!"

Well, my experience says yes! I was extremely homophobic b/c of my own tendencies!!

Alecto
12-28-2007, 11:31 PM
I'm just curious, Megandy, if the definition provided for heterosexism is indeed the operational definition used in the study you quote (and if not, if you know what it was?)

I think it's worth noting that while homophobia is often active (and overt), heterosexism is more likely to be neglectful and oftentimes more subconscious. Homophobia is fear and hatred. Heterosexism is a form of oppression, and like all forms of oppression, part of the privilege of the oppressors is to not have to think about the oppression. When someone asks a male "so do you have a girlfriend?", it's heterosexist to automatically assume everyone as heterosexual, but the person asking almost definitely didn't mean to be offensive. What I'm getting at is that, yes, 90% of therapists might be heterosexist, and that's not so great, but I also (personally) find it not so surprising. Most of them probably don't need any attitude change, or professionalism, or exposure to different views or any of that: they just need to be introduced to some things that might help them be more inclusive in their language and actions and assumptions. Many would probably welcome such an opportunity.

Megandy
12-29-2007, 12:00 AM
Indeed no, that was not the operational definition used in the study. It is a pretty rough definition of heterosexism as I have come to understand it so far in my learning. You did a much better job of explaining the difference between homophobia & heterosexism!

Daniel
12-29-2007, 06:54 AM
Just getting to this thread- and welcome. I enjoyed your inside view on research. Very informative. And interesting. I agree: if you want to really know something, you have to get to the original research, and even then, you have to 'use your eyes'.

My own hubby is in this second year at Hunter College as an LMSW student here in NYC. Of course, I have the idea that you two should meet (he not a member of the forum, but I'd be happy to get you in touch with each other). He's interning at SAGE (Senior Action in a Gay Environment) right now, and is seeing up close the effect that heterorsexism has on older gay adults. For one thing, they are fearful of entering nursing home/ adult care facilities, where, more often than not, they experience discrimination and abuse. And with good reason. In many places (especially urban areas), the staff is made up of folks of color, who, unfortunately, because of the intersecton of religion and their own normative cultural experience, are in the closet about gay folks. The caregivers becomes the victimizers! And for older gay folks, who have suffered so much during their lives, this is more than they can cope with.

Happily- this is changing in some area's of the country, but my own observation is that these 'gay' facilites cater to those with significant wealth- and that's another problem. Not everyone can afford to retire to Palm Springs.

And not to beat a dead horse, but this is why we need GAY MARRIAGE. I believe being in a facility with one's legal spouse would change the tone of things real fast, both with caregivers and health professionals. Because, as will all legal matters, there are 'consequences'.

It's great to have you here!

ladyinred
12-29-2007, 01:48 PM
I'm a Christian and the notion that Christians are some kind of persecuted minority is about the most ludicrous thing I have ever heard At least in this country I don't know about others though from what I've read.

tymejumper
01-03-2008, 07:24 PM
Does the preocupation with homosexuality fall under another already-existing diagnosis, perhaps? It sometimes seems a bit obsessive (literally, medically speaking) to me (see the Phelps clan). And sometimes the ranting could probably fall under paranoid schizophrenia (again...Phelps clan :-/). That said, I would be really interested to see some connections made, or even just read some case studies etc.


:lol::lol::lol:My actual background, which is strange for an Occuapional Therapist, is Psych. Its funny you mention if other things can fall under differing diagnosis. They actually have a NOS catagory, it stands for Not otherwise Specified. I means you ALMOST, but not QUITE fit a diagnosis. Like for ADD there are several symptoms, if you only have say 6 of 8, you dont qualify for an ADD diagnosis, but you DO quailify for an ADD NOS diagnosis. It is generally used for insurance purporses, but it is my professional opinion, that it is used for more than that to label people etc.

Did you know that any of us at any time could be placed neatly into a diagnosis? The only reason many of us don't have one is becuase to have a true diagnosis, your mental status must infringe on 2 areas of your life, work/school, social or family. If you have anxiety for example, but you are not affected enough that it causes problems in your life then you don't qualify for a diagnosis.

Unfortunately, there are less than professional people out there that are willling to make any and all diagnosises to make themselves look powerful or look good.