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Britt.
11-06-2007, 11:15 AM
I'm naturally pretty unstable & disappear a lot. Ask anyone who knows me, but I guess I always come back.

I finally broke up w/ the passive aggressive control freak of a boyfriend, in large part because of his cheating, & moved out about a week or 2 ago. Didn't go so well. The big red Cadillac I paid $7500 in cash for, tagged, & insured is lost. We never got the title itself transferred, but maybe I can sue for the money since I have paperwork for everything. So I borrowed a car to move my stuff out of there, & find a shaving kit in the trunk. I bring it back in, & he's like, "I thought you might want it." WTF? Why would it occur to someone to try to give a gift right then. Left it on the floor. Gone in under an hour, as my larger possessions were never there, & didn't have to be moved. He tried to steal my computer, but that didn't go over. Now I'm borrowing friends' cars to go to work, & staying w/ a good friend until the house I'm buying goes through. Just me. No roommates. No significant others. I'm also about to pay cash for a used blue Lincoln town car (I like big, obnoxious cars for some reason). In the unlikely event that the house thing flops, I might just drive the Lincoln around the country for a while & find things to do, in part from the sheer excitement from having my own car again. I'm seriously all kinds of restless anyway. The last few times I've left have just been move & stick around for a while. Never just drove around.

The drama was no fun, but I'm glad to be free of that relationship, which a couple people I've talked to on here probably understand. I no longer feel smothered or pinned down.

So anyway, hi. I'm here for now.

Vanessa White
11-06-2007, 11:50 AM
I have been wondering where you have been Britt. Glad that you checked in. Glad that your life is driving into a new direction- HAHA. Seriously, if some down time is what you need, and you can afford to take it, TAKE IT. It can be a great way to take care of yourself. Peace to you, :love:

Jennifer5
11-06-2007, 12:24 PM
I'm naturally pretty unstable & disappear a lot. Ask anyone who knows me, but I guess I always come back.

I finally broke up w/ the passive aggressive control freak of a boyfriend, in large part because of his cheating, & moved out about a week or 2 ago. Didn't go so well. The big red Cadillac I paid $7500 in cash for, tagged, & insured is lost. We never got the title itself transferred, but maybe I can sue for the money since I have paperwork for everything. So I borrowed a car to move my stuff out of there, & find a shaving kit in the trunk. I bring it back in, & he's like, "I thought you might want it." WTF? Why would it occur to someone to try to give a gift right then. Left it on the floor. Gone in under an hour, as my larger possessions were never there, & didn't have to be moved. He tried to steal my computer, but that didn't go over. Now I'm borrowing friends' cars to go to work, & staying w/ a good friend until the house I'm buying goes through. Just me. No roommates. No significant others. I'm also about to pay cash for a used blue Lincoln town car (I like big, obnoxious cars for some reason). In the unlikely event that the house thing flops, I might just drive the Lincoln around the country for a while & find things to do, in part from the sheer excitement from having my own car again. I'm seriously all kinds of restless anyway. The last few times I've left have just been move & stick around for a while. Never just drove around.

The drama was no fun, but I'm glad to be free of that relationship, which a couple people I've talked to on here probably understand. I no longer feel smothered or pinned down.

So anyway, hi. I'm here for now.

Glad to see you back... and glad ot hear that things have been settling down! I know you were really unhappy with the way things were going... and that's never healthy to feel so burdened by a relationship.

Glad you're back for now:)

antiochian
11-06-2007, 04:20 PM
Um, don't know you but sure hope things keep getting better!