The Boys Shelter

[drewcaine]

I might end up having to go there sometime...does anyone know what it's like? It sounds alright, since it is a boys shelter...I can't complain, if it's the only place I can go then I will; can't always get what you want, you know.
drewcaine

[scott snedeker]

what's happening? are you in trouble?

[sailaway58]

If it is a detention shelter you won't like it much. Don't go in with a chip on your shoulder and that might help.
If it is a shelter for wayward youth it's not bad but they are very different from one to another. I was a house parent and I have hated teenagers ever since.
We had a pretty rough group though.
If it is a shelter for abused kids, they are there to support and help you.

[u-dog]

Drew,

What's up? you getting kicked out? Utilize the resources that we found for you buddy! let us know whats going on and how we can help.

U-dog

[antonyh]

I might end up having to go there sometime...does anyone know what it's like? It sounds alright, since it is a boys shelter...I can't complain, if it's the only place I can go then I will; can't always get what you want, you know.
drewcaine

Are you OK?

[Zerbie]

Drew,

Are you alright? Are you safe? I'm concerned too. We care about you and want you to be okay.

[drewcaine]

My grandma's too old to take custody of me and my mom's either not getting our calls or ignoring us. My dad-with all due respect-has lost it (I had a post on this once, so if any of you guy's remember it then this is pretty much Act II). If I follow through on the proceedings and win then custody will be placed in someone else's hands (I guess I can't have it...who says the law is infallible?o_O), and right now the Boy's shelter seems better than to have some stranger taking me in. I wanted to just stay with my grandma (we recently moved into an apartment) because I feel secure and feel that I help her out every day whenever I can.
I can't type anymore.
drewcaine

[Zerbie]

I'm sorry Drew.
:(:(:(

There are age restrictions on custody?? Can they be waived in case of 'extenuating circumstances?' Can your grandma consult with a lawyer to find out?

I really have no advice for you - I don't know anything about the shelter, or about custody laws, or anything. But I hope that you find a safe place to be and soon. I forget how old you are. 16?

:pray::pray::pray:

[drewcaine]

17 in January.
drewcaine

[keltic63]

is emancipated minor status an option for you in your state?

[keltic63]

UPDATE? Please? :pray:

[animejunkie]

DrewCaine,
I am so concerned for you! Your situation is no different than many like us around the nation! Why! If my parents ever found out, I would be kicked out and hated by all my family. This nightmare permeates my dreams, it never leaves my mind.

Your post eminate a feeling of sadness that overbears me. I am praying for you, God Bless You! God loves you for who you are, I know people around you, say no that. But it is true, believe me.
-Kyo