NathanATX
07-24-2006, 04:31 PM
http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20060724/od_nm/china_marriage_dc
An unconventional matchmaking service began to provide a (hopefully) romantic connection for "people who cannot have sex." But it also has a large number of "comrades, the Chinese nickname for homosexuals," seeking a partner too for very unromantic reasons, i.e. to ease the stigmatization & discrimination from family & coworkers, prevent being publicly outed, etc.
"The tone of some other postings is more tragic in a country where homosexuality was listed as a mental disorder until 2001, and where it remains stigmatized in many places."
"My parents threatened to never see me again or even to commit double-suicide if I do not have a baby soon," said a Mr. Wu in a posting."
I went to the website mentioned in the article and used "altavista" to translate the pages. Here is a message board posting I found.
Absolutely heartbreaking.
Nate
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User: Sub- is cold
Sex: Male
Email: ********@sina.com
Ip: 222.216.252.xxx
Message time: 2005-08-06 20:32:46
Subject: Thanks
Content: I am a comrade, for many years, I continuously extremely contradictory with have paced back and forth, along with age gradually big, comes is more and more big from the family and society's pressure, but I do not want to use the marriage which not loves to deceive an innocent female, the very accidental opportunity, I have registered wx920, in here, I had found the new hope, recently, I had known through wx920 with the city pulls, through several contacts, we has become the genuine good friend, we already decided holds the wedding ceremony in October, I really think happily, we not only may continue own life style, Moreover had the intimate friend which may mutually pour out, mutually look after, really very much thank you, boundless forest.
An unconventional matchmaking service began to provide a (hopefully) romantic connection for "people who cannot have sex." But it also has a large number of "comrades, the Chinese nickname for homosexuals," seeking a partner too for very unromantic reasons, i.e. to ease the stigmatization & discrimination from family & coworkers, prevent being publicly outed, etc.
"The tone of some other postings is more tragic in a country where homosexuality was listed as a mental disorder until 2001, and where it remains stigmatized in many places."
"My parents threatened to never see me again or even to commit double-suicide if I do not have a baby soon," said a Mr. Wu in a posting."
I went to the website mentioned in the article and used "altavista" to translate the pages. Here is a message board posting I found.
Absolutely heartbreaking.
Nate
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Message information
User: Sub- is cold
Sex: Male
Email: ********@sina.com
Ip: 222.216.252.xxx
Message time: 2005-08-06 20:32:46
Subject: Thanks
Content: I am a comrade, for many years, I continuously extremely contradictory with have paced back and forth, along with age gradually big, comes is more and more big from the family and society's pressure, but I do not want to use the marriage which not loves to deceive an innocent female, the very accidental opportunity, I have registered wx920, in here, I had found the new hope, recently, I had known through wx920 with the city pulls, through several contacts, we has become the genuine good friend, we already decided holds the wedding ceremony in October, I really think happily, we not only may continue own life style, Moreover had the intimate friend which may mutually pour out, mutually look after, really very much thank you, boundless forest.