I have friends that were victims of hate crimes as well, but I have never been physically victimized, but definitely verbally victimized at least a couple of times in my life. The speech is frightening, it seems to fuel more hateful ideas. I also do a lot of training for child welfare workers here in PA. on working with LGBTQ youth. I always end my training by talking about Matthew Shepard (you would be amazed at how many people do not know who he is), I show a picture of him, and play the song "Scarecrow" by Melissa Etheridge. It chokes me up with heartfelt emotion every time. When I hear about something like this, I feel powerless, and even more empowered and determined every time. If any of you are interested, the Southern Poverty Law Center also has a publication and website, teachingtolerance.org. I don't much care for being tolerated necessarily, but they cover many diversity issues including sexual orientation issues, hate crimes, discrimination, and how to have the courage to stand up and speak out. I have gained more courage by their information and sharing. Thanks for the link. Be well, all,
