You just have no clue about how strict and confining my sister has been on her 3 boys. The oldest is 22, the next one is 19 and the baby is 14. And I am here to tell you, for a fact, the two youngest ones stayed with me for 2 weeks before I came out and they would not watch PG13 movies unless they called their mother and asked her permission. The oldest is a different story. Once he graduated, he went off the deep end. He has been arrested at least twice and has a bunch of warrants out for his arrest for selling alcohol to minors, stealing cigarettes, etc... He has moved out 4 times and resists moving back home. Wonder why? When she found out he smoked, she questioned his salvation! Yes, my nephew is 19 chronologically, but he is still 8 years old inside and still has to get his mommy's permission because he has been told since day 1 that if he even thinks about disobeying her, his salvation is seriously in doubt and he is likely to go to hell. Of course, when he finally does grow up, and realizes he likes other men, she will blame me for infecting him.