Oh no! It's really hard when a partner is depressed, it can affect you too. Keep taking good care of yourself like you're doing, and know you have a ton of support. We're cheering you on with the job search. Go Lydia!!
Never linger too long with the ignorant,
throw stones at their talk.
Walk only with the lovers,
the mirror of the soul gets rusty when
dipped in muddy water.