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Old 07-30-2007, 01:43 PM
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My sons both accuse me of not "having any balls" because I am not fighting this, they tell me to "man up."
Well, you didn't believe it when YOU were 28 and it was happening TO YOU. You can sort of understand why THEY don't know what the hell they're talking about. All they have to go on is an ideology. You had ideology AND personal experience and had to wait years to figure out which one was true. Someday they will want to know and understand you and will be ready to abandon the ideology that seperates them from you. Ideology is such a barren and unsatisfying substitute for love.


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But honestly, I "did do something wrong." I broke my vows to my wife repeatedly and then lied to cover it up. There is no pretty way to put that and it is just simply true. I do understand why I did it and I have been able to forgive myself.
Like I told you in private, Paul.. Its the whole Jesus thing: "You suck... go and suck no more"
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