Originally Posted by Spoticus
I have read some literature written by Dr. White. I’ve seen the videos that were recently put online. The position of Soulforce (insofar as I understand it) is that homosexuality is: not a choice and a natural human feeling, and homosexual relationships are valid alternatives to heterosexual relationships.
I fully agree with the first two, and am currently seeking the truth for the third.
At the risk of inundating you with various thoughts, none of which may be helpful, I see that the matter of "valid alternative" is on your mind. While not a theological answer, I would reply that I've been in a relationship with a man for 14 years- it seems perfectly valid to me- and while I work to have this relationship legally sanctioned (I don't necessarily mean sanctified) in the goold ol' USA, I don't need anyone's validation to make it meaningful.
Can gay men have successful relationships? Yes. Are they doomed to a life of meaningless sex and one-night stands? No.
You'll talking to the pudding here.
Life is what you make it.