Well... not babes so much... out of the mouths of people who are way too young to be that wise. Austin and Bennett, you are the young warriors of the next generation. You are going to be fine no matter what happens. Some of the young folk who show up here,though, are bleeding and have had an arm and a leg blown off by homophobic IED's. If we decide NOT to have a dedicated thread or forum (and I can go either way on that) then we all need to be careful to be gentle and patient. We all know how internalized homophobia can wound and REwound people AND cause people to wound themselves and the people who are trying to help them. The homophobia and those who perpetuate it are the enemies. everyone else is family.
Just my opinion.