Joe: congrats to you and Rick on your longevity, and your love for one another. It will take you far into the future and is a touchstone when things are difficult. Again, thanks to all of you who are contributing to this, I am so glad that the idea occurred to me, and I love reading about so much bliss in these forums. I feel blessed to be in contact with all of you, and this site brightens many a stormy day!!!!!!! Peace and love all, Vanessa