Same with those above, I absolutely don't read Jake's contribution as whining of any kind. I mean, we need to acknowledge all aspects of this issue, not just the political/civil aspects of it. There is such a human, personal side to marriage equality. I want to marry my partner so that we can walk down an aisle, or a ocean pier, or a wooded path, and tell each other and those closest to us why I commit myself for life to her. I want to wear the beautiful dress, carry flowers, say the vows, dance the first dance....
....and then, there is the presents.... LOL
I watched my beautiful younger sister get married to her soulmate on the beach in FLA this year. It filled me with joy for her, and sadness for myself. I think the general public needs to know the personal and civil reasons why this is the best idea.
