I agree with you. Let it ride. But I was struck by your opening sentences:
Originally Posted by antiochian
Sorry, I forgot to mention that he went on to say how disgusting gay sex is. Does that leave any room for doubt?
Yes, actually, some doubt. That kind of statement is often used by extreme closet cases to deflect attention from what they know in their hearts they really want. I think you're the best judge of the situation. And, as you said, it's only 'til May.