My only thought is- People have to do what is right for THEM.
I couldn't do stay in a mixed orientation marriage, but that was me. I had to make the decision based on what was right for me. That doesn't mean it's the right thing for everyone! I admire people like Ben, Zerbie, Paul, and others who have mixed orientation marriages, because they are MAKING IT WORK! It didn't work for me. I wasn't in love with the man I was married to. Love is the key. Love has always been the determining factor.
The people in this article LOVE each other. If you have that, you can make anything situation work.
If everyone cared and nobody cried, if everyone loved and nobody lied, if everyone shared and swallowed their pride, we'd see the day when nobody died. IF EVERYONE CARED/Nickelback