Originally Posted by chuck2pastor
Through our ups and downs, my wife has stayed with me because of our kids, and I think that she will not out me professionally for fear of losing the income needed to take care of them.
If she does out me professionally, I don't know what I will do. I have never had any other full time job, and my background with a major in psychology doesn't go too far -- counseling really requires at least a master's and preferably a Ph.D. There's a hiring freeze in my state right now so I couldn't find work there (which is what I had thought I might do if it came to this.) I will see where the Lord leads me. I will let you know when I plan to tell her, but it won't be in the next two weeks.
I have to plan out what to say to my kids and get feedback about that before I continue.
Just keep me in your prayers.
my ex did everything she could to out me, sometimes, I swear she was stopping strangers on the street to tell them
it backfired. she ended up looking pretty bad. as scotty preaches here, don't let fear hold you back. what happens will happen, and you WILL be able to handle it as it comes.