You have come to the right place. For help with the biblical/theological issues you should check out the "resources" tab above. "What the bible does and doesn't say about homosexualilty" is a good place to start. There are other good books as well that are listed there. have you read Mel White's book, "Stranger at the Gate" yet? All of us have found that book to be VERY helpful. It has saved many lives over the years since he wrote it. If you have a question about a PARTICULAR passage, there are those among us who can help you to think those through.