One thing that has helped me with certain family is to understand that coming out is a process for them as well. It took me YEARS to finally open my heart wide enough to love myself as I am. I'm sure it will take them years to do the same. They may never accept who I am, then again, it may happen quicker than I realize.
Daniel says it all - just love them and make sure they know it. Somehow, the rest will fall into place no matter what happens in the future. Also, hold on strong to those who do love you for yourself, they are your biggest and best supporters and encouragers, and will be there when you just need a shoulder to cry on.
Welcome to the forums, where you will certainly find friends and cyber shoulders!
"Struggle is a never ending process. Freedom is never really won, you earn it and win it in every generation."
Coretta Scott King