Thanks to everyone for your thoughts and comments. I know very well the contradiction of terms, it is a very sad thing. I have read the http://www.soulforce.org/article/hom...-gay-christian
and it did make me feel better about my situation but I guess I am still not convinced that God hasn't condemned homosexuality. I wish it did, I wanted it to resolve the conflict I still feel. I have read most of the articles on this sight and it has helped. My gf isn't a Christian and she doesn't understand what why I feel this way. I would love to go to a church that was affirming of homosexuals and not be too new agy like for me. I believe that Jesus is the son of God and loves me and I need the salvation he provided for me on the cross. Some of my Christian friends are accepting but they are the exception. When and how does a gay Christian come to terms with this conflict?