Thanks. I now have a visual stuck in my head of Boy George dressed in his Culture Club outfit, giving a commencement at Bob Jones Univ. Very nice.
Thanks everyone for the enlightenment. I agree that "choices" was probably the wrong word, as I understand sexual preference to be biological as opposed to a choice. When I mentioned "choices", I was thinking overall life choices that we all make, some good and some bad. But I wasn't clear about that.
I'm not sure I see the issue with the word "lifestyle", but I guess that also implies a choice. I'm sure someone will clue me in
I see your point about just coming onto campus and speaking with students. In that case, I see what you're trying to accomplish and you're right, campuses are usually open ot the public.