More and more, medical science is finding that gender identity and sexual orientation are determined before birth. I don't know any LGBT person who says that it is a choice.
One of my favorite feminists is named Mary Anne, but that's a whole 'nother story.
We always appreciate straight allies, somehow they help us to be more believable with those who condemn gay people. It's as if they somehow know more about being gay than gay people do.
Go figure. And PFLAG is another great asset to gay and straight people alike.
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Peace and Love, Bruce Chris