Singing the same tune...
I definitely know what you mean, sbonser... I've been with my gf for almost two years now and most relatives never ask about her, but if my cousin even mentions a guy's name then everyone gives her these big smiles and asks all sorts of questions about how they met, how she knows him, etc.
I feel like my relationship doesn't count to them. "Don't ask, don't tell"
No government has the right to tell its citizens when or whom to love. The only queer people are those who don't love anybody.
- Rita Mae Brown