Mia, you are too funny. I was approached by my cousin at a family reunion a year or so ago and she said, "So I hear you have a new fella, what's his name?" (She didn't know I was a lesbian) So I smiled and said, "Rebecca". It took a minute, but then she said, "Oh, OH! So you're a ..." and I smiled again and said, "Yep, I'm a...." We left it there.
I have been divorced for 5 glorious years and there is no way in *&@* I would EVER go back to a man. My wife keeps asking me how I stayed married to a man for so long. Can't answer that one. All I know, is I wouldn't trade my wife for anything in this world.