[Vanessa White]

Okay, let your creative juices flow. If you could have or are planning to have a wedding or commitment ceremony, where would it be and what would it (and you) look like? I feel like I go through days when I kind of obsess a little about how I would plan it, so it got me curious about all of my friends here.

For myself (and whoever the other self is ) I would like to have the ceremony in Vermont or Provincetown. I would like it to be a female minister. I would like to wear some type of wedding dress- not necessarily a flowing gown, but something pretty formal and a veil, but no shoes! I would like to have the ceremony outside, and have myself and my love enter under the gazebo type decoration together. I want very few people there, definitely family and only a very few friends. I want quiet music of some type, maybe guitar/folk type music. I want LOTS of flowers, and to create vows that come from the deepest part of my soul. I want my daughter to be part of the ceremony, and I want a big party with music and food and drink and laughter and love. Basically, I want it all, and I know that it will be for me someday...... What about the rest of you? Do tell!