For me and my GF, there really isn't male/female roles. She's the jock, I'm the girly girl but she can get a bit girly and I can be fairly butch depending on the situation. She likes to be in control, and I don't mind relinquishing control because - and ALL you girls out there say it with me - us girls always have control anyway! She prefers the yard work and I the housework, although we both share most duties. She hates the cleaning bathrooms and I enjoy that - a little work leads to quick results!
But, she's afraid of spiders and I'm not, and likewise she hates snakes and reptiles and I like them. I'm the horse person, she's sort of getting to know horses from a distance. She enjoys the occasional spoilage day of sitting around with the TV remote, a cold beer and having me wait on her, and I enjoy that too. But she's also very motherly when I'm ill, more so than I am. Neither of us likes dresses, but I'm fairly femme in my dressing (no dresses tho), wear makeup, etc. GF is a Levi dockers, polo shirt and slip on shoes type. She likes functional gym wear, I'll tolerate warmer clothing as long as it looks cute and trims me up!
Oh gosh, can't talk about the bedroom - but yup, there are 'roles' with women Awe - GF tends to be the dominant one, although sometimes I gotta put my Superman cape on....
Can't believe I said that!