Well, I just did it on September 24th of 2005.
It was a garden party in my boss and friend's backyard. The gang I work with and friends collected dining room tables from all over and china from other friends. Each table was set in the garden with nice linens and a glass hurricane globe in the center.
We had the ceremony under an harbor with a justice of the peace. My sister read a beatiful Walt Whitman Poem and my partner and I wrote the ceremony.
It was a blast and I can't remember half of it because it seem to fly by with so much going on at once. I could send you the ceremony if you wanted to read it.