Okay, I've been thinking about this a lot lately and going throguh so many maybes. Nothing's set yet, but I don't think I want a white dress either, Zerbie. Instead, I think I'd like me and mine to wear complimenting, but not identical dresses - something simple, but elegant and pretty.
I have a very large Italian family, so I'd like to invite them all (whether or not all will attend is another thing entirely), but I don't think many people from her family will come at all. They don't even know we're together yet and we're already this far in.
I'd like the general theme of the wedding, as long as the large Italian family will actually come, to be more focused on the people. Food will probably be modest, as will decor and location, because the two of us will likely foot the entire bill ourselves. I'm not sure where I'd like yet (I want us BOTH to decide) or even when, but I'd like to propose in May (but not this one) and maybe get married in May as well. Something about May...
No government has the right to tell its citizens when or whom to love. The only queer people are those who don't love anybody.
- Rita Mae Brown