Mia- I don't think we've ever been asked this question in the 14 years we're been together. I don't know why that it, though it may have something to do with the fact that we're both over 6 feet tall.
I'm curious as to who's asking you. It is men or women or both? I could see guys doing after having watched the fascination that straight men can have with two women together- but that's all about their projections.
We've sorted things out as they've arisen over the years, finding out that it's been more about letting the other person do what they do well. The only problems have been when we've forgotten this and one of us mistakenly thinks he has to be in 'control'.
We share everything materially speaking- and have learned more and more to share everything that is immaterial too. That's perhaps the most important stuff. Last I heard, dreams and fears don't have a gender.
Be the love you seek.
Last edited by Daniel; 05-16-2006 at 11:03 PM.