Mia, that is exactly the point of all these posts - there really isn't any gender specific roles we adhere to. Sounds like we all just 'do our thing.' Increasingly, I find that in the heterosexual relationships I know of, mostly with the younger crowd. Some of us 'oldies' are stuck in a rut! (Some of us, not all!)
This is a great thread as it shows that we are all diverse as humans - not because we are GLBT, but because we are people.