Where is my head?
Forgot to mention. My husband did sue the Catholic Diocese of Manhattan and win. Why? As an organist, he was fired unjustly before the term of his contract expired by a gay and homophobic priest. He won the case. (This was before me met 14 years ago) The church tried to do everything to stop him from going to court, even calling him the night before, repeatedly, to 'settle the matter'. These kinds of things can get pretty ugly. Proving the motto: Look before you leap.
Be the love you seek.