hey keltic,
Good luck and God bless... At times I am grateful for no kids and at others, it is the only regret I have being gay... oh well...
I've no idea the legalities or mindsets involved other than what you've shared, but how might it play out to (ulp) to take the bull by the horns, blow up and ease that tension and inform the ex of the impending letter? At least the "why didn't you tell me during our last phone calls?" extra added accusation would be eliminated....
maybe talking out my elbow, but a thought
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