[Vanessa White]

I hope that you will hold long and fast to your love and know that the answers will come. There is so much love for you both here with us, but in addition, I will agree with much of what has been said, in that you need to listen to your own truth. Let your mind speak and then listen to what you hear. Let your heart fully open to you and pay attention to what it shows. This has brought me through so many trials and struggles when I have allowed myself the time and the quiet to do this very thing. And then, trust what you hear. It feels so good to be part of an embracing, nurturing church community, but I think that we need to trust first in our hearts and entire beings that no matter if churches accept or reject us, we are standing in our own truth of God loving us with all of his might. I also send prayers your way from my heart. Peace be with you both, Vanessa