I'm glad you shared it with us and I know we'll keep you near and dear until things get brighter.
This little group has become something of a family...
let us support you and grieve with you while you're under this great change. If you need anything, let us know. Ultimately, your daughter will be happy that you were honest with the situation and made a better place for her - I'm sure of it. This isn't an ending for you, it's just a fork in the road and you've chosen a path.