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Originally Posted by andrewlittle
I don't keep secrets becuase theya re the things will hurt you worst in the end - or so I thought.
I didn't anticipate this outcome because 3 of the 4 elders are in various aspects of medicine and should know about the condition. There is, as usual, a big gap between what one knows and the biases one carries with them.
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That's very interesting, but not all that surprising. my ex is a nurse, but never did well when our kids were sick. There always seems to be some disconnect when it becomes a bit more personal.
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The sad thing is the only recourse I may have is to go on sick leave and prepare for being on disability. Right now, I'm hovering pretty low on my mood scale.
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may I ask how you're feeling? Does it feel like your job performance is being affected? I understand how this would put you in a low mood, and that certainly doesn't motivate one to do one's best for the employer.... but I'm thinking more along the lines of what I told my kids and a few others when I first came out as gay: I've always been this way, YOU just have new information about me. If you've been doing the job, and continue to do the job, how does this new piece of info change the conditions of your employment?