I've struggled with this before. To live for yourself and your own wants is considered selfishness...and on top of that, is homosexuality really a sin? Why must you choose between God and who you are. Yeah I say "who you are". If you've watched "Prayers for Bobby" - he says "What I am". Part of you, attractions, and what you think is the way God made you. Why would my loving, forgiving, God that cries with you, God that laughs with you make you choose him or the highway?
So these are my jumbled thoughts. Thanks for the posting