Well, you can be a war hero, and be gay,
But you have to take an awful lot of crap. Just ask John Matlovich. Or that guy who saved Gerald Ford from assassination, Oliver Sipple.
It really would be nice to be taken for one of the good guys right away.
The government would like to think that the public somehow doesn't catch on, but many of us do.
"Christianity is not about what you believe, it is about how you treat other people; - with God's love"