I can definitely say what turns me off. Arrogance, narcissism, bossiness, prudishness, and closed-mindedness.
I'm attracted to various types of men. As one who despises concepts of masculinity and feminity, I must concede that I lean towards the more "manly" men--not "macho" men. I can be drawn to various facial features, whether it be the lips or whatever, and definitely the eyes--a guy with striking eyes, especially blue, just melts my heart. Tall or short makes no difference. Hippies, cowboys, preppy, doesn't matter.
What's important, of course, is the person's heart. He must be kind and compassionate, humble, and a good sense of humor is a must. He need not be fancy; I like men who are down-to-earth. Intelligence is good. I like someone I can have deep conversations with. I want someone who is spiritually uplifting, who will accept me as I am. Those are the basics. I'd also love to have a fishing buddy, and someone to watch horror movies with!
"And though I may not know the answers, I can finally say I am free. And if the questions led me here, then I am who I was born to be." --Susan Boyle
"If all fools could fly, the sun would be eclipsed forever." --Dutch proverb