Originally Posted by NathanATX
Isn't interesting how sex-negative we are... even after all we've been through?
My mother had my father confront me about being gay after finding a copy of a skin magazine in my bedroom. Was I ready to tell them? No. I was still trying to get used to the idea and was in the midst of exploring my first real relationship. In my family sex, like money, was never discussed. My Dad did
have the 'talk' with me when I was about 14 which freaked me out because it was totally out of context: my parents instances of affection towards each other was abberant behavior as far as I could tell. Buying that mag was one of my first big steps towards growing up- an act of love. Another big one was when Mr. Husband and I climbed down the hill to Black's Beach in San Diego, tore off all our clothes, jumped in the water and splashed around like kids.