God bless you for your efforts with respect to the SFIF crowd. Since i'm an Episcopalian, i'm familiar with their website though i stopped checking it out a long time ago. Too much hateful vitriol for my tastes.
The change will happen. Only God knows how long it will take, but as MLK said, "Let us realize the arc of the moral universe is long but it bends toward justice."
The demand for equal rights in every vocation of life is just and fair; but, after all, the most vital right is the right to love and be loved.
Emma Goldman (1869-1940)