Thanks all for help.......
Why we broke up with Lola? ...I even cannot understand now, may be she cooled down to me, which day I do not hear it, she doesn't call and not send me the message... what I must add else here..., she was sraight and when I has appeared in her life... She really loved me. But it was hard for me,that I not could touch her,hug her.....on public.
She still doesn't call me... And.... I think it's over.........
THANKS:
Kara, Jennifer5, Gennee, and 
thanks much Bruce Chris