This guy is 23 years old. He's an adult. I guess I'm curious as to why he doesn't just leave the ex-gay bullshit and go live with his boyfriend in Wisconsin until he can get a job. I mean, If my family started screaming Bible nonsense at me when I was 23 and demanding that I get therapy, I would have simply moved out and gotten my own place.
My message to him is...LEAVE!! Just give them the finger and walk out. Nobody is forcing you to be there.
Get some balls bud. If you want people to respect you, you've got to respect yourself.
Out of the closet and into the streets!