Congrats on your wedding and on your transition! Great pic, bro.
I'm married to an FTM. We've been together 35 years. He began transition in 2005. Good thing you guys aren't gay like we are. You never would have been able to get married. Luckily, we live in MA where it's legal, so our marriage is still our marriage, no matter the official gender.
When you can transform the war and violence in yourself, then you can truly begin to help others find peace. Thich Nhat Hanh