[Pablo Rafael]

Hi Merlin,

I can't answer whether it would be worth it to move, but I can say that it has been well worth it to me to be in a welcoming church. My little Episcopal church has been a great blessing to me. I live in a town with 377 people, and I am a long way from an urban area. Even rural America can be warm and welcoming.

I would disagree with one point you made. I don't think one has to disregard any Scripture to be comfortably gay and Christian. I solidly believe that the Bible is God's Word. I am not a literalist, but I am fairly conservative.

I don't see anyplace in the Bible that leads one to believe that God is anti-gay. I see nothing but affirmation in the Scriptures for love shown to God and to others. I believe God is very pleased when two people pledge themselves to each other to love and support.

I feel that the same rules that apply to heterosexual relationships and homosexual relationships. Selflessness and love are the key.

God's blessings on your journey.

Tu Amigo, Pablo