Normally I don't post much to other people's threads because all I have to add is ignorance. But in this case I believe that your fear is one maybe of committment. On one hand, you would like to be in a committed relationship with someone, but on the other hand, you don't trust your instincts to know when the 'right' person is in your grasp. The best advice I could give you is to live in the moment. If something doesn't work out, it doesn't work out, and you move on. As perfect as this guy might be for you, there could be another right around the corner who is better if the relationship doesn't go just the way you want it. So enjoy it while it lasts, and if it is forever great if not it was great while it lasted. That philosophy can free you from worrying the relationship to an early grave and give you good perspective for if it was never meant to be.
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