It's kind of a small matter, I guess, and maybe should be going into a new topic? But you seem a little judgey, tyme, about non-committed sexual relationships. Not all men who go bar to bar are just notching their bedpost, and I do think that temporary, honest intimacy is still legitimate intimacy.
Non-committed sex IS riskier, definitely (which is why I tend to agree with you and lean towards requiring condoms), but something about the way you phrased that made it sound as though you think these people to be...selfish. And that's just not always the case.