We're always at choice. If someone is praying at you and not for you, you're free to ignore it. Perfect Love is yours as is. If you're at peace with yourself and what lies at the core of your being no-one can take it away from you. Prayer changes you and maybe how you feel about you. You're already Divine. You came that way. So did Mom and every other well-wisher or nay-sayer. There is no they. All One and done.
Ben N. Moore
It's great to have here to be.