I'm not sure if this group is active any more but there used to be a group called ORU-OUT. It's a group of ORU alumni that happen to be GLBT. It seem like I remember some of the people here also being members of ORU-OUT. Anyway, I know that there are several gay friendly churches in Tulsa if you are searching for one. FWIW, My cousin graduated from ORU. He's a very homophobic doctor in Tulsa now. I'm not out to him or that part of my family. They are very outspoken against gay people.
"Beloved let us tolerate one another. For tolerance is of God and everyone that tolerates is born of God and knows God. He that tolerates not, knows not God for God is tolerance." 1 John 4:7,8