Originally Posted by Legendary
Both of these men were categorized as homosexual based on what bodies they are sexually attracted too. However on was not a "true" same-sex loving individual. Maybe there should be different names for people like this. This is confusing.
PS: I know that some ex-gay organizations do in fact use "controlling" methods. Some admit that reperative therapy may not work for everyone (anyone).
Anybody can have sex with anyone. That doesn't make one gay. Rape doesn't make one gay any more than it makes one a Martian. Does it mess with one's head? You better believe it.
Both examples you give could have been helped by modern psychotherapy. The truth is this: God doesn't 'change' our sexuality. The Exodus folks would like to think that one can change one's sexual orientation as if it is a 'mind over matter' matter , but this is simply not true.
Take the 'faith' part out of their stuff and you see it for what it is.
It's not who you have sex with that matters, but rather, who you fall in love with.
Being gay is about LOVE.