Originally Posted by Legendary
Whoah...Once again you are mis-quoting me. And I never said what happened to me in my past was the reason why I like guys. Can you please tell me where I said that. I even said " I do not believe that I am a same-sex loving individual because of my past. I believe it is how I began." And in my first post I mentioned that I was doing research on this for a presentation in my Gender and Sexuality class and I just had some questions that I listed (which never got answered). I mentioned my past to get advice on advice on how to find peace with God. I know this place is good for this(because this is not my first visit). So in conclusion, I came here for two very different reasons. Discussion about my research and guidance on helping me find peace with God. Best not to get the two mixed up.
PS: If I wasn't clear enough in my first post than I apologize.
You've already hear my suggestion re finding peace. But in the interest of being very clear, I will say it again.
That is where you will find answers. Inside yourself. And no place else.
Re your research: the way you have gone about the discussion of sexuality suggests (to me anyway) that you have some sort of confusion about your feelings. If I am wrong about that, then please say so. That is way I asked directly: are you a gay guy who is having a problem with your same-sex feelings.
You haven't answered that question!